01 — Ways to Play
Step by step through ChastyME — from first sign-up to shared play. Choose your role and discover what's possible.
Contents
01 — Getting started
All roles
Creating an account takes just a few moments. You can sign in with your phone number, Google, or Apple. Once you're in, you set up your profile and choose your role.
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ChastyME is available for iOS and Android.
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Use your phone number (SMS code), Google, or Apple — no password required.
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Pick a display name, choose a role (Wearer, Keyholder, or Owner), and you're ready.
Overview
Download the app, sign in with your phone number, Google or Apple, and set up your profile — that's all it takes to begin.
Detailed guide coming soon.
02 — Adding a device
Owner Wearer Keyholder
Owners and Wearers can add a device directly. Keyholders can also own a device — for example to take on the Wearer role later.
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Tap "Devices" in the app and then "Add device".
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The app finds nearby compatible devices automatically. Select yours from the list.
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The device is now in your account. You can rename it, set it up, and assign it to a play relationship.
Overview
Open the Devices section, hold your device close, and it lands in your account — ready for solo play or a Keyholder.
Detailed guide coming soon.
03 — Solo play
Wearer Keyholder
Even without a partner, you have access to timers, the community vote, and — depending on your device — vibration and gentle shock functions. You're in control at all times.
Open and close the device manually via the app — whenever you choose.
Set a fixed duration. The device stays locked until the timer runs out.
Let the community decide how long the timer runs. You start the vote, they set the duration — a fun way to hand over control without a dedicated partner.
Supported devices let you trigger vibration patterns or a gentle shock — on a timer or manually.
Set location-based rules for yourself — the device only unlocks in certain places.
Overview
Lock and unlock manually, run timers, hand the duration to a community vote, trigger vibration or a gentle shock, and set your own location rules — no partner required.
Detailed guide coming soon.
04 — As a Keyholder
Keyholder
Keyholders manage the device for their Wearer. They decide when something happens — and when it doesn't. Here's what's available:
Control when the device opens or closes — immediately or at a scheduled time.
Set a duration. The device stays locked and counts down for both of you.
Schedule regular short breaks — the device opens briefly and closes again automatically.
Trigger a vibration at a set time — a playful reminder that you're thinking of them.
Schedule a gentle shock on supported devices — intensity and duration are adjustable.
Ask your Wearer to send a photo or video as proof — with a time limit you set.
Define zones or specific places where the device may or may not unlock.
Overview
Lock and unlock, lock and hygiene timers, scheduled vibration or shock, proof requests and location rules — everything you need to hold the key with care.
Detailed guide coming soon.
05 — Location restrictions
Wearer Keyholder
ChastyME offers two different types of location-based rules. Both can be set by the Keyholder for the Wearer — the Wearer must allow location sharing first.
Single location
Set a single location directly on the map — for example, a specific room, building, or outdoor spot. The device rule applies exactly at that point. Quick to set up, no preset list needed.
Up to 10 saved places
The Wearer saves up to 10 personal locations in advance — home, work, a favourite place. The Keyholder then picks from that list. This way, the Wearer defines the meaningful places; the Keyholder chooses which one applies.
Location data is processed only for the purpose of applying the rule. No tracking, no history.
Detailed guide coming soon.